Six Weeks · Live · Twenty Couples
THE FORTY
Six weeks to a new marriage with the same spouse.
Six Thursday nights. Both of us. A room of couples who are exactly where you are.
It takes as long
as it takes.
Six weeks is forty-two days.
Forty is the number that shows up every time somebody in scripture goes into the wilderness and comes out different. The flood. The desert. The fasting.
It never means a quick fix. It means it takes as long as it takes, and you do not come out the same.
That is the honest version of what happens here.
Six nights. One framework.
The same one we used.
The Design of Marriage
What it was built to do, which is not what most of us were handed. You cannot rebuild a thing until you know what it was supposed to be in the first place.
The Responsibility of Leadership
What he is actually responsible for, what it costs him to carry it, and what happens in a house when he goes quiet. This is the week most men stop checking their phone.
What She Carries
The same honest look from the other side. What she is holding that nobody sees, what she stopped saying out loud, and what she needs that she quit asking for a long time ago.
The VITAL Framework
The five things a marriage cannot live without. Most couples have lost two or three of them without noticing.
Protecting What Matters Most
Where the lines actually go, and how the two of you build them together instead of one of you policing the other.
This is also the week we get on a private call with just the two of youA Legacy That Lasts
What you do with all of it after tonight. Your children will not inherit your business. This is the week we talk about what they will inherit instead.
No surprises.
Thursdays at 7:00pm Central
8:00 Eastern. 6:00 Mountain. 5:00 Pacific. Ninety minutes on Google Meet. Same link every week.
Both of you
One registration, two seats. This does not work with one of you attending and reporting back.
Cameras optional
You will never be called on. Come and listen if that is all you have got.
Recorded
A kid gets sick, you miss a week, you catch up before the next one.
Twenty couples, maximum
Teaching and live questions, not a sharing circle. Twenty is the number that keeps it a room instead of a webinar.
Registration closes September 10
Before the first session, both of us get on a short call with both of you. That takes a week to work through, which is why we close it a week out.
Everything is included.
- Six live ninety-minute sessions with both of us.
- The workbook. Built for these six weeks. Delivered digitally before week one, so print it or work off a screen, whichever you two will actually use.
- Voice memo access to us for the six weeks. Something happens on a Tuesday, you send it, one of us answers.
- Every session recorded. Yours to keep.
- A private thirty minute conversation with both of us in week five.
In week five, we get on a call
with just the two of you.
We are not selling you anything on that call. We are going to tell you what we have seen in you both over five weeks, what we think is still in the way, and what we would do next if we were you.
Sometimes what we would do next is nothing. We will tell you that too.
We would rather tell you now
than take your money.
Not for a couple where one of you has already decided and is going through the motions.
We cannot want your marriage more than you do.
Not for a marriage that broke open this week.
If something just came to light, or one of you has moved out, a group is the wrong first step. Email us instead and we will tell you what we would actually do.
Not for someone looking to be handed a system and left alone.
There is homework. There are conversations the two of you have been avoiding. You will have them.
If we read your registration and think this is not the right room for you right now, we will call you and refund you in full.
That has happened. It will happen again. We would rather do that than have you sit in a room that cannot help you.
$2,997 for both of you.
Here is the way we would think about it if we were sitting across from you.
You will spend more than this on one piece of equipment this year. You will replace that machine in eight years.
You are also going to pay somebody to help you run the company. Nobody is helping you with the thing the company was supposed to be for.
Your children will not inherit your business.
They will inherit your marriage.
Ask us anything.
Is this counseling?
No. We are not therapists and we will not pretend to be. If what you are dealing with needs a licensed counselor, we will tell you and help you find one.
Do I have to talk?
No. Some people talk in week one. Some never say a word and it still works. Nobody gets called on, ever.
My husband will not do this.
That is the most common thing we hear. Send him this page. Tell him it is six Thursday nights, he does not have to talk, and nobody is going to gang up on him.
And if he would rather hear it from a man before he agrees to anything, send us his number and Kevin will call him. No pitch. In Kevin's words:
Let's jump on a call and talk it through. There is no shame in any of this. I was there too.
Either way he will not be walking in cold. Before the first session, both of us get on a short call with both of you.
What if we miss a week?
Everything is recorded. Watch it before the next one.
Is this going to be religious?
We are Christians and we are not going to hide that. But we are not handing you rules and we are not preaching at you. What we believe shows up in how we talk about our own marriage, not in a list you are failing.
What happens after the six weeks?
Some couples are done and doing great. Some want to keep going, and there is a next step we will talk about in week five. There is no pressure either way.
What if the payment plan card does not go through?
We will reach out and sort it out with you. Nobody loses their seat over a declined card.
The framework is not new.
The six-week format is.
These couples worked through the same material in other formats. The Forty is the first time we have taught all six pieces straight through, in order, in a room.
Kevin and Bree didn't just give us tools. They gave us a completely new way of seeing each other. We came in as roommates. We left as actual partners. It doesn't just fix problems. It changes how you communicate at the root level.
I walked in skeptical. We'd done counseling before and nothing stuck. What Kevin and Bree built is completely different. Structured, practical, and it actually works in real life. Six months in and I barely recognize us. In the best way.
We were weeks away from signing the papers. The accountability, the framework, and the real lived experience Kevin and Bree carry. It was the only thing that cut through. A year later our marriage is the best it has ever been. Don't wait.